"Ed... If I don't come back, water the bonsai for me." - Jet
Somethings actions be explained.
You'd rather not bother anyway, just details.
When it comes down to it, you'd rather personal things stay that way.
Although usually the voice of reason, when something of a personal nature arises, you don't hesistate to handle it alone.
Why get others involved, it just makes life more complicated.